National Underwear Day 2018

National Underwear Day is a day that speaks to me on an emotional level, as to be honest I bloody love underwear. Wearing a really nice set of lingerie, or a bra and pants that look great, is one of the techniques I use to feel best about my body. But I haven’t always been so confident in myself. Being… View Post

On Feeling Like You’re Not Getting Anywhere

The Lowdown Everything in my life is going pretty well right now, so why does it feel like I’m just not getting anywhere? Personally things are going better than they have in a while and emotionally I’ve been feeling ok. I’ve been really happy over the last few weeks! Some positive changes are happening and I’m getting some really good… View Post

Nobody Likes You When You’re 23/An Open Letter

It’s starting to become a habit to write an open letter on your birthday. You wrote one last year, but didn’t publish it. You didn’t really know what you were trying to say. A lot has happened in the past two months. You got really hurt by someone you loved, got diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and are preparing to… View Post

AD | 4 Ways I Practice Self-Care

Self-care means a lot of different things to different people. Mental health charity Mind describe self-care as techniques and lifestyle changes which help manage the symptoms of many mental health problems. To me, it’s simply taking the time to myself to do things which I enjoy and which make me feel good about myself. I decided to share a few… View Post

An open letter to no-one, really.

Two years ago today, I started the rest of my life. It was a beautiful day, even I could see that. You can too. I ventured on a journey that day, physically and emotionally, but it was a journey for the better. That’s what I thought then. This time a week ago, I was preparing a celebration of how fair… View Post